About Brandon
There is no way to summarize Brandon or his life. So I won’t attempt to pretend that I can. Where would I even begin? I was lucky enough to have him in my life for 5 years, and he will absolutely be in my heart forever…everywhere I go….he’ll be right there, tucked right in to my heart. A permanent fixture that has forever altered me and the way I view the universe.
Brandon’s most basic personality was of love, empathy, adventure, sensitivity and passion. We had many many discussions on the purpose of life, and to anyone that knew Brandon this is not a surprise. This is a question that we’d both struggled with our entire lives. We’d throw ideas around, and ultimately there is only one that we agreed on. I was embarrassed at first to tell him the only answer that ever made sense to me, and I was surprised to receive a resounding, ‘yes! That actually makes sense when you really think about it.’ The answer was love. Love for each other and others is what got us through our days. So, needless to say, Brandon did not need a lot of material possessions or flashy accessories. At the end of the day he wanted to give and receive love and contribute to this world. In terms of contribution? Well mission accomplished. The number of amazing things I’ve heard from people…some I didn’t even know existed…does not surprise me. Although he was not fond of social media, I thought it necessary to have a place where we could all share those thoughts and memories.
I could write an actual novel on Brandon’s complex personality and soul. As I get through this, I will add to this page. There are so many thoughts racing through my mind that I want to share….one of the first things that made me look at him sideways like ‘is this guy for real?’ is how you could give him a sentence and he could tell you how many letters were in that sentence almost immediately. Not just simple sentences….complex ones with difficult words that I didn’t even always know how to spell. And his multiplication skills? Suffice it to say, his intelligence was intimidating and alluring. It seemed to know no boundaries. On top of that he loved writing songs, playing on his guitar, biking, nature hikes, and philosophizing about almost any subject. There is just too much to say in one summary. So I figured this could be a start.
At the end of the day, I’m honored I got to provide him with his minimum ‘3 hugs per day’ quota. And that ultimately I got to give him the gift of unconditional love. They say that love between partners is conditional, and should be conditional. But for me, he had me. Through ups and downs I just loved him. And likewise, he gave me the gift of unconditional love…and provided me with my hug quota too. I never thought it possible. And then there it was. A love like that is probably once in a lifetime. I’ll take it.
So please write with no boundaries. Share stories. Pictures. Recently he put a blanket over his head, picked up our little fake lantern, hunched down and pretended to be the Hunchback of Norte Dame. I laughed SO hard. It was SO adorable…simple and silly….and in that extremely ‘dorky’ moment I felt so much love for that man. I knew I’d remember that moment forever.
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One of the first things I admired about Brandon was how open and honest he was on so many levels. It was obvious how much he cared for Laura. His love for her was imbedded in almost all of our conversations. I truly loved seeing him and always looked forward to our discussions. He was a very thought provoking conversationalist and I had been looking so forward to our Post-Covid visits. He really was a special soul and I cherish the memories I have, including our conversations online. We were especially fortunate to have some one on one time with Brandon and Laura when they visited us back in Florida several years ago. Some of these photos reflect that very special visit! I will miss you, Brandon, and know you were so loved!
Laura, I am Brandon’s uncle Bobby Grizzle. My brother Chuck was married to Sue and they had Brandon. When my brother Chuck passed away Sue and Brandon disappeared. Brandon was only 1 year old. My family has been searching for Brandon for 33 years. It was just a few weeks ago I found Sue. We finally connected after all these years. You can only imagine how I felt. I was so looking forward to meeting Brandon and sharing with him everything about his dad. Sue sent me I few pictures of Brandon when he was just a boy. He looked just like his father. I can’t even imagine your grief. It looks like he truly loved you. I would love to see more pictures of Brandon and get to know you. If you have the time to call me my number is 909-636-6162. Our entire family mourns the loss of Brandon and we will pray for peace and understanding through this dark time.
I knew Brandon to be a smart and thoughtful person who clearly loved and adored Laura without limit. We had some fun times when they visited us in Florida, going to Epcot and riding the West Orange Trail in a Surrey! I will miss his unique views on life and his sense of humor. May he Rest In Peace.
I did not know Brandon but I did know his family. His father and uncles. I believe that I could have met Brandon and in just a few minutes made the connection of him with them. The things said about Brandon bring back memories for me of his father and uncle that have left us too soon. As did Brandon. God bless all of you that are family and friends of Brandon. Prayers for you all.
I was there the day Brandon was born; but as his grandmother never thought I would be here when he left this earth. He was an adorable little boy though he was something of a daredevil. He liked snowboarding, movies, and biking. I’ve been lucky the past few years to live close to him. We’ve spent many a visit talking about anything and everything and frequently dining at favorite Mexican restaurants. Brandon had an incredible mind, was a terrific conversationalist. I know Brandon loved his Mom and I but the happiest I ever saw him was when he was with or talking about Laura. She was truly his soulmate. You could tell they were in love just by seeing them together.
I will miss him forever.
Although we didn’t know Brandon well, the times we met he was very sweet, and clearly in love with Laura. It’s heartbreaking to hear of his passing, we were looking forward to getting to know him better after Covid. Our hearts go out to those that loved him.
Paul and Jen
As Laura’s mother, I had already heard many of the stories that she has posted about Brandon, but many are new. I treasure each of them and look forward to hearing more.
I’m holding Brandon and Laura and their stories close in my heart. They found a true and dear love in each other. Through many of these stories, I find a common ground with Brandon in my mind and in my heart. I feel changed for the better by knowing him.
I stand with all of Brandon’s family and friends who miss him. Many of you are out of state but Brandon’s grandmother lives not too far away. I hope to share our grief in person someday soon.
I love you, Brandon.
I will take comments from this page a duplicate them on the obituary website as well. So that people don’t have to write duplicate entries.
How do I begin ? My name is mark Lambert was Brandon’s dad jack bones friend first met Brandon when he was 2 or so my daughter was the same age . They moved to Colorado in Feb of 95 our family became close , the kids were the 18th St gang lots of backpacking trips up sking , I took the gang repeling Brandon jumped off a 120′ cliff lots of fun will miss his late night calls love you Brandon RIP
You never leave my mind. I miss you so much it takes all my strength away at times. Today it was as simple as your laundry basket. I saw it tucked away under the shelf, and after that my day was done. I pictured your Sunday laundry routine. So sweet, always offering to wash my clothes too. So I’ll try again tomorrow. For you.
All the little pieces?
MEMORIAL INFORMATION
In Loving Memory of Brandon Thomas Bones
Please join us in the Celebration of Life for Brandon on Saturday, January 15th, 2022 starting at 2 PM.
Location: 3200 Kerbey Lane Austin, TX 78703
If you would like to send flowers for his special day, please send them to the address above. Texas Blooms and Gifts is nearby and reliable (512) 474-7719.
I look forward to seeing everyone who would like to come and celebrate this amazing human being. Please call or text me with any questions (512) 731-7410
CHANGE TO MEMORIAL INFORMATION
All information is the same except the LOCATION has been moved about 5 minutes away from previously planned
New address:
Weed Corley Funeral Home
3125 N Lamar Blvd
Austin, TX 78705
Still on Saturday, January 15th at 2pm
There is a park/walking trail about 5 minutes from the location. It will provide a nice outside area for anyone that would like to enjoy the outdoors after the service. You can send flowers to the new address, just make sure it is labeled for Brandon Bones. Or you can still send flowers etc to 3200 Kerbey Ln Austin, TX 78703 (it is my mother’s house)
Please text me with any questions (512) 731-7410
I look forward to spending this time remembering Brandon with all of you
Thank you,
Laura